who shot chivalry?

Chivalry is so dead. I'm waiting to be proven otherwise, but I'm severely urked in the meantime. At the airport the other day I was struggling with my bag, and there were numerous men around that should have rushed to my side to help, but of course not. They got to watch me sweat and swear. Walking to the gym today in the rain, a guy SPED UP, drove by and soaked me with a puddle. I'm self sufficient, but sometimes I just want someone to recognize when I need help and be there. Guys are NOT in tune with our needs even just on these tiny day to day bases. I have a strong feeling that I shouldn't expect anything or hold my breath while I wait.